Showing posts with label Dr. Bock. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dr. Bock. Show all posts

Sunday, June 5, 2011

Week 59

Memorial Day/Phil's Birthday Celebration
The kids waving their flags from Grandma for Memorial Day

Singing Happy Birthday to Phil
Amelia, Ryan, Alyssa, and Julia





Ryan's first soccer practice
























































Visit to Dr. Bock.

We had an appointment this past Tuesday to get Ryan's blood work results.  We discussed Ryan's behavior since our last appointment.  He has been regressing in his behavior and Dr. Bock told us that this could be a side effect of the new supplement that he prescribed called PhosChol.  We are now taking Ryan off of this supplement, as well as a couple of others, and are trying a few new supplements with Ryan based on his updated blood work.  He is apparently low in iron and a few other areas.  They are:  Iron Liquid, Liquid D3, essentail GSH, Lith-Oro, and a different type of Probiotic.  We will now have to get into new routines to fit all of these new supplements into his diet.  But we always manage; it is just a bit overwhelming each time we go to Dr. Bock.  Ryan was a little shy with the doctor this time but we did have to wait over 45 minutes in the exam room while he was finishing his dinner.  We found this out when we complained to the nurse that we were waiting a long time and the kids were getting antsy. The doctor offered an apology once we finally saw him but he said it was based on his first patient that caused the delay, not the fact that his office smelled like fish!  Dr. Bock did suggest that we try an IV treatment but we told Ryan that this was not a needle visit and we were not going to sit and wait longer for this treatment.  We will have to do a little research on this treatment to see if it is worth the trouble of hooking Ryan up to an IV and having his arm wrapped for over an hour.  Overall we were a little disappointed with this visit because we both felt that he rushed us out of his office.  He was behind schedule and he was trying to make up time.  Hopefully our next visit at the end of August will be better but this one left a bad impression with us.    



Our new banner came in this week, just in time for the walk!


















We are on our way to the walk in just a few minutes so we'll write about it on next week's blog, and for those of you on Facebook, we'll post pictures on the Ryan Express page sometime this week.  

We went to an engagement party this weekend at a family member's house.  Ryan wasn't on his best behavior and between both kids being cranky and tired, and me not feeling well, we stayed for a few hours and left.  But it was enough time for the kids to take a dip in the pool.  At first Ryan didn't want to get wet (in all fairness, the water was really cold!) but then he was fine once he finally went in.  However, he did make sure not to get water on his face, which he dislikes very much!


First swim of the season






























On Tuesday Ryan graduates from PARC!  We'll tell you all about it next week!

DC

Sunday, March 13, 2011

Week 47

This was a tough week for us with everyone being sick. Ryan was still sick most of the week. We kept both Ryan and Julia home on Monday and tried to send them in on Tuesday.  Half way through the day their daycare called to tell us that Julia was now sick and Dawn went to bring her home.  When I went to pick up Ryan later that afternoon he was standing on one of the outside play ground pieces and asked me "if he could go home now".  Normally we have to drag him off the playground but he looked so sick just standing there we kept him home the next two days.  It was a total team effort between Nonna and Grandma coming down and watching both of them the rest of the week. On Friday Ryan was well enough to go to school but Julia was still sick and went up to Nonna and Papa's house. Everyone is starting to get better but it was a long illness! 


This week we were supposed to drive up to Dr. Bock on Tuesday. However, with everyone still being sick this was not a possibility. So we set up a phone appointment.  Dr. Bock was pleased with Ryan's progress and was glad that he did well on the trip to Pittsburgh and Florida. He is going to write us a letter in support of Ryan on the GF/CF diet so we can add it to his IEP at his annual review this May. He also put Ryan on a new supplement called Phosphatidylcholine concentrate.  This is to help with developing and repairing neurons in the brain and to help with the break down of fatty acids.  He is still unsure as to why Ryan's eczema comes back so he is going to send us back for more blood work to look at fatty acid levels, vitamin D, iron, and minerals. 

The kids seem to be back to their old selves again.  Here they are dancing together...




We did not mention in last week's blog that we registered Ryan for Kindergarten! However, you would think that this would be an easy thing but of course it does come with it's transportation dilemma. The form for requesting transportation is due by April 1st. However, Ryan's annual review is not until the end of May. We will not know if Ryan is in morning, afternoon, or in the all day special education kindergarten (yes, our school district still has half day) until the middle of August. Our school district's response is to fill out the form letting them know where to pick him up and drop him off for all three scenario's.  However, how can we go to a day care facility and ask them for a spot if we do not know what we need? While I am sure that the transportation will work out it just causes us unnecessary stress and this always seems to be the one area that we get the biggest headaches with when dealing with Ryan and his programs.

Ryan came home with a clay dinosaur that he made at PARC.  He was quite proud of his creation!

PC

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Week 46

We don't have much to report this week except that Ryan hasn't been feeling well for a few days.  We received a call from his daycare on Friday morning stating that he wasn't feeling well so they didn't send him on the bus to PARC.  Instead, Phil picked him up (and Julia as well who seemed a little mushy) and brought them home.  They both spent the last few days with high fevers up to 104.1.  Ryan was so weak on Saturday that we had to carry him from room to room.  Although he complained of stomach aches, he didn't seem to show any signs of a stomach virus.  The quick strept test at the doctor came back negative for both kids, but Julia's urine showed a high concentration of white blood cells so she has an infection and they sent it out to the lab to get analyzed.  Julia is on an antibiotic but for now the pediatrician feels his is just viral and it needs to pass through his body.  We're hoping to hear the lab results tomorrow.

He looked so sad and weak and his voice is so scratchy and altered that I didn't want to post any pictures or videos this week but we're hoping he'll be back to his usual self soon.  In fact, as I write this, his temperature is around 100 and he's in pretty good spirits, about to head up to bed. 

I do have one funny story to share.  Phil came home from the store with a black suit that he purchased for his brother's wedding.  Ryan asked to see it and said, "Daddy, it's all black.  You can't wear that at night cause nobody will see you and they will bump into you."  We thought it was so cute!  I can't wait to hear what he says when he goes to get fitted for a tuxedo this summer for a wedding that he is in this October!

Ryan has an appointment with Dr. Bock on Tuesday so we'll be sure to report about that in next weekend's blog.  Have a great week everyone!  And stay healthy because there is a lot of nasty viruses going around!

DC

Sunday, February 6, 2011

Week 42

Ryan's class at PARC participated in a mini Olympics among their students.  Ryan was very excited to come home each day and tell us things such as how you are supposed to line up to do a relay race.  He brought home a medal and two award certificates.

Ryan received a medal and certificates for the Relay Race and the Javelin Throw


YES, Ryan got a haircut this week!  He let me cut it with the electric clippers!  Afterwards he looked in the mirror and said, "This is a bad haircut, mom!"  He's also been keeping his coat on with the hood up when we see people we know because he doesn't want them to see his hair, but then when they do they say how handsome he looks and he gets a big smile on his face.  It is really short but not as short as a buzz cut.  I was so surprised that he let me use the buzzer, especially near his ears.  But he did a great job staying still (granted he was watching a movie too so that helped!).  I'm hoping that if he'll let me use the machine the next time too that one day soon he can get his first professional looking haircut at a barber shop.  While I seem to be improving my haircutting skills, I do feel bad when his haircuts come out looking less than perfect.

On one of our numerous snow days I was peeling Clementines and asked Ryan if he wanted a piece.  He then proceeded to jam his straw into it so that he could get the juice out.  When I told him that wasn't how you eat it, he took out the OJ carton and replied, "Like this mom." 
An "A" for persistence and originality!
And once he realized he wasn't getting any juice out of the whole orange, he tried with the piece I gave him.  Of course I captured it on video!



A friend of mine alerted us that Fox News held a segment regarding how diet is used to reverse the effects of Autism.  And Ryan's DAN doctor, Dr. Bock, was interviewed. 
Here's the link:  Can Diet Reverse Effects of Autism?
We had some trouble with the link working so if you are unable to connect, go to foxnews.com and in the search box type in the title "Can Diet Reverse Effects of Autism" and find the article that way. 


Here's what happens when you have at least 2 snow days a week for the past 4 weeks.  Here's Julia occupying herself. 


Ryan joins in at the end of this video after we convinced him to not dance naked in front of the camera anymore.

Not really understanding the concept of musical chairs but they played this way for more than 10 minutes. It tired the heck out of them and I was able to grade papers while I randomly pushed the play/pause button on the music videos on TV.


I'm not sure if I've mentioned this before in a previous blog, but I often worry about Ryan being bullied and made fun of in school.  Working in a school I see too often how cruel kids can be at times and how differences aren't always tolerated.  Through friends on Facebook I was made aware of the lyrics of a song called "Don't Laugh at Me" by Mark Wills.  Here is a link to his video on You Tube.  It sends a great message.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FVjbo8dW9c8
My school is currently doing a big anti-bullying campaign and I am again trying to get an event going where a presentation can be made by Jesse Saperstein (remember him from our week 27 blog post?).

DC

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Week 34

Lots of photo opportunities this week to share with you!

As promised last week, here are some pictures of Ryan at our family reunion last Sunday.  He loved the show put on by the clown and really got into it.  It kept him entertained and on task for an hour.  He even volunteered during her show. 






Ryan wasn't crazy about standing next to Santa Claus















Even though Ryan enjoyed the clown, he did cover his ears whenever she did anything with the balloons.  He was afraid one would pop and be too loud and scare him.  All of the kids were getting up to the microphone to introduce themselves and tell the crowd who their parents and grandparents were.  Just about every child did this, but Ryan didn't want to.  At one point we almost convinced him and he started heading up to the microphone, but then everyone started clapping and cheering for him because he was being brave, and he turned around and sat right down.  I guess it was the noise or over abundance of attention he was getting.  Several family members commented on the big changes they saw with Ryan.

During the week we had an appointment with Dr. Bock for a checkup.  While in the waiting room Ryan sat quietly at a little desk and wrote with a pen in a coloring book.  There were other children in the office bouncing around and their parents were running around after them and cleaning up after them.  For once Phil and I felt relieved not to be the ones chasing our kid.  Ryan was well behaved not only in the waiting room, but during the entire visit.  Dr. Bock seemed impressed with Ryan's improvements and accomplishments.  We told him about the sign language and Dr. Bock asked Ryan to show him, but he wouldn't.  Ryan isn't great about performing something on the spot for people.  I don't think he likes the attention. 

So the summary of our appointment: we are stopping the Nystatin.  We are increasing the oils because Ryan's skin is still very dry and scratchy.  So now we have to give him oils in the morning as well.  And because we feel the injections are helping, he suggested doing them every other day rather than twice a week.  I am thankful that Ryan is good about getting the injections; I don't think we would have agreed to give them every other day if we had to go back to holding him down while he's kicking and screaming.

On Saturday Ryan performed in PARC's Holiday Show.  I felt so bad that I couldn't attend (Julia had parent day at ballet class), but Phil video taped it for me.  Phil's mom also went and both said the show was great.  Ryan was on task the entire time.  He followed all of the dance moves and sang every song.  We had him dressed in a shirt and tie, and Ryan pulled out the front tails of his shirt while on stage.  Luckily he was in the back row!  Here are some pictures that Phil took:


Still a little unsure of being near Santa, but getting better.

Ryan with Miss Sue, his special education teacher at PARC

Ryan with Miss Rose, one of the head teachers in his classroom.

After the show Phil's mom took us out to lunch.  Both kids were a little wild, but I guess better wild at that time than on stage!

And this blog wouldn't be complete this week without a couple of pictures of Julia at ballet class.



Ryan and Julia had a playdate at a friend's house.  They all made gingerbread houses.  Ryan enjoyed this task, and did a GREAT job eating just a few candies that I told him were okay and he steered away from all of the others.  What great will power!  Not many people can sit next to a bowl of M&M's and not eat at least one!


The finished product!
I caught Ryan and Julia working on a Sudoku puzzle.  Okay, they weren't following the rules, but they were practicing tracing their numbers.  They are their mother's children!


I thought this was hysterical- they both looked up at me at the same time giving me the
"we're busy, stop taking pictures of us" look!

Yes, more hats made by Miss Jessie at Noah's Ark!  Ryan proudly wears them around all day!
On another note, our thoughts and prayers go out to Baby Olivia (see our blog on Week 18) who has been admitted into the PICU today with pneumonia.  Get better soon Livvy!

DC

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Week 16

Methyl-B-12 Injection

Methyl-B-12, a special form of vitamin B-12, also known as methylcobalamin, is a nutrient that boosts methylation.  Methylation is essentially the process of flushing toxins (mercury and toxins found in foods and the environment) from our system.  According to Dr. Bock, Methyl-B-12 can help the body get rid of toxins, including mercury, which is often the toxin that disrupted the methylation process in the first place.  In addition to assisting in detoxification, other benefits include improving cell membrane function, neurotransmitter and hormone metabolism, and neuronal healing.

On Friday, Ryan received his first injection (500 mcg) of Methyl-B-12.  Phil and I joked afterwards that we should have taken a picture to post here, but at the time we were consumed with so many things that the thought hadn't crossed our minds.  We first wanted to try the injection while Ryan was awake.  We applied the numbing cream in a small area above his buttocks and waited an hour for it to 'kick in'.  Ryan was fine with me putting on the cream and the bandaid to cover it.  He was NOT fine when I approached him with the needle.  We tried distracting him with a TV show and a lollipop, but he was very anxious and knew we were up to something.  So we decided to wait until he fell asleep.  Just before he went to bed we reapplied some numbing cream to be sure his skin would stay numb in case the first dose wore off by the time he fell into a deep sleep.

I reread my notes and instructions from the training and headed up to his room at about 10 pm.  He was fast asleep and Phil was able to roll him over to the side the cream was applied to.  I was extremely nervous that I would do something wrong.  The good thing is... the needle is very tiny and when inserting it on an angle there's no way you can penetrate too deep.  The bad thing... the needle is very tiny and my biggest fear was that I would break it in his skin during the process.  I worked myself up into a nervous wreck, but Phil calmed me down, and I administered it just fine.  The process was over in less than three seconds.  He didn't feel a thing, or at least we don't think he did, because he didn't budge from his sleep at all.  Now that I know what to expect, subsequent doses should go more smoothly.  His next dose is scheduled for Monday night, and this time it is 1000 mcg.  Once we observe him with that we'll call the doctor's office to let them know how things went with both doses and they will call in 10 more needles.

Ryan did great on Saturday, the day after the injection.  We were out of the house for over 12 hours with different activities that we had planned.  We met a friend at 10 am in Brookfield, CT.  Ryan and Julia jumped and slid down slides in inflatable castles for about 2 hours, we did some shopping, we went out to Applebees for lunch, and visited the Danbury Railroad Museum all before 4 pm.  On our way back home we were invited by friends to take the kids swimming in their pool, and we stayed there for dinner and dessert as well.  They had purchased a variety of foods that Ryan could eat and we had a lovely evening.  There were several preteens and college kids there and they were a big help keeping the kids busy.  Ryan was interactive with the children and the adults and did a good job transitioning from one activity to the next. 

I wish I could say the same for today.  We stayed home today and that may have been part of the problem.  He seemed to get into a rut.  He was very aggressive and physical with both me and Julia, and had several  major meltdowns throughout the day.  His OCD was also very active.  I did a heavy duty clean up in his room and he became very upset that his things were out of place.  He also seemed restless.  We brought the kids outside to play and he was all over the place.  He played with something for about 2 minutes and then moved on to the next thing.  Nothing seemed to keep his interest and he was very distractible.  But by the end of the night he was much calmer and he went to bed happy.

I'm not sure what part the injection played in the behaviors displayed on Saturday and Sunday but I guess time will tell once we get on a schedule with administering them.

Here are some pictures from our long Saturday filled with activities:







An update on the karate... on Thursday Ryan had a playdate with a little boy down the road.  His mom and I were talking about karate places in the area.  Ryan was in earshot of us. When the little boy left, Ryan told me he wanted to go to karate. I was so excited.  We got in the car and headed over.  He fell asleep on the way there so I had to wake him up when we arrived.  To our disappointment, the place was closed because the owners were on vacation!  We'll try again next week.

DC

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Week 15

Self-confidence

It wasn't until this week that I saw a side of Ryan where self-confidence was nonexistent.  In my mind he is always the kid trying out new things and being a dare-devil, especially during physical "rough-housing" activities.  The faster the movement, the more Ryan likes it. 

He was invited on a play date to a local park.  He had no fear on the playground as he climbed all over the place.  He even climbed up sides of the equipment that weren't meant for climbing.  He tried the monkey bars several times, but was unsuccessful.  It didn't seem to bother him and he moved on to his next quest.  It got me thinking that it would be great for Ryan to have something all year round enabling him to exert energy but also develop some focus and self control.  I thought, "What activity could do that better than karate?"

I was very excited with the thought of introducing him to the art of karate.  I brought him to a place that offers karate classes to children Ryan's age.  We were in luck... there was a 3-5 year old class going on at that moment and a second one was going to start in 10 minutes.  I signed Ryan up for a two-week trial and let him observe the class going on.  He watched the kids through the waiting room window and seemed somewhat interested in what they were doing.  I was surprised that he wasn't begging me to allow him to run into the room and join in.  When the class was finished the children waiting in the room lined up to go in for their class.  I told Ryan he could join that class but he didn't want to.  He watched them do warm-ups and some simple stretching activities.  One of the instructors encouraged Ryan to join them several times, as did I, but Ryan's response was to put his head down and say "it's too hard" and "I can't do that". 

I had never seen this side of Ryan.  Physical activities, especially involving gross motor skills, have always been his strong suit.  It was very discouraging and it made me extremely sad to see him that way and to hear the words he was saying.  I think it made other parents in the waiting room sad to see Ryan this way too, and a couple of people sent their children over to Ryan to talk to him about some of the things they do in their karate class. 

Needless to say we left the building without Ryan ever stepping foot into the gym area.  Maybe Ryan was having an off day and he'll want to try it next time.  I will definitely bring him back another day to try again. 

On another note, we had a fairly good week regarding food, supplements, and medicine.  Ryan finished the Gentamycin and is doing well with the Nystatin.  He'll be ready for the B12 injections next week.  We added a new supplement on the list... Iodine.  Within 2 hours of him taking the first dose he was "off the wall".  He was cranky and irritable and not at all himself.  We chalked it up to the introduction of a new supplement and hoped for different results the next time.  And the next day he took the Iodine and was fine with it.  I'm embarrassed to say that I don't know why the Iodine was suggested by Dr. Bock.  He may have mentioned why but I don't remember.  I did a quick search online but wasn't able to make a clear cut connection.  And I tried looking over his lab results but it's all "Chinese" to me. 

We need to get Ryan an appointment with his ENT for a check up with the tubes in his ears.  They may need to be surgically removed since they have not fallen out on their own yet.  Also, Ryan's speech therapist mentioned something about the nasal area and is writing a note for us to share with the ENT at our next appointment.

DC

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Week 12

Ryan had a busy week between his visit to Dr. Bock, starting up at school again, and his Occupational Therapy sessions.  Ryan's first day back to school was Tuesday, which was also the day of his Dr. Bock appointment.  There was so much to report about the day that I made a separate blog post.  We received a lot of support regarding Tuesday's post and appreciate the emails and calls.  It helps to know that there are people out there who care and are rooting for Ryan. 

I was able to meet Ryan's Occupational Therapist this week.  She treated him at our home this week, and she was able to show me some things that I can do to work with Ryan on some of the Sensory Processing issues he has.  During the first session Ryan was very upset that she was there.  He was kicking and screaming and when I tried to calm him down he bit my arm.  We ignored him for a few minutes and the therapist and I played with some of the equipment she brought and within five minutes he joined in.

A friend of mine had suggested pear sauce as a means to mix some of Ryan's supplements.  We tried it a month ago and Ryan wanted nothing to do with it.  But then over the past week he was able to tolerate the texture of applesauce.  Now that he should be avoiding apples because they are high in phenols, I thought I would try the pear sauce again.  The first time I let him have it without any meds in it.  He liked it and wanted more.  I mixed in two of his doses of supplements and Ryan ate the few spoonfuls I gave him.  But then the next day I tried it again and he must have tasted the supplements I put in (not sure which one has a taste to it) and was wary.  He would only eat it straight from the jar.  I will continue to try this new food and somehow hide some of the supplements in it a little bit at a time. 

We've also been keeping an eye out for eggs in ingredients and have been okay so far.  He has not gone "egg free" so we haven't been able to do an elimination trial yet. 

Over the weekend we drove down to Virginia for our niece's baptism.  Ryan spent over 7 hours on Saturday (mostly in the car) refusing to go to the bathroom.  He waited until we got to the hotel.  Half way through Phil tried bringing him into a bathroom and he had a meltdown.  Then on Sunday both kids were awful in church.  They couldn't sit still, and Phil ended up missing the part where our niece was baptized because both kids had to go to the bathroom.  Phil and I were the Godparents and were up on the alter for part of the ceremony and the kids kept shouting out to us and running back and forth from the pew to the alter.  It was so humiliating.  From the alter we could see the faces of the guests there for the other children getting baptized and they were constantly looking over staring at our children.  We regretted our decision to bring the kids with us. 

Some things I've learned this weekend:
1.  Ryan acted no different in the hotel on this trip than he did the last time we visited Virginia back in April, just before we started this diet. 
2.  I feel like Ryan is regressing back to pre-GFCF diet, and it is a very scary feeling.
3.  I've been reviewing Dr. Bock's book for answers, and I wish I had re-read certain sections before our visit to him last week.  It would have helped me better understand the information he was giving us.
4. Phil and I are losing our patience and the motivation we had in the beginning of this process has faded.

DC

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Ryan began his preschool summer session on Tuesday.  The minivan "bus" picked him up at 7:45.  Phil followed the bus (without the driver knowing) all the way down the Taconic just to make sure he was a safe driver.  Of course I was the one who put Phil up to this task, but I felt better knowing that Ryan was okay and in good hands.  He returned home at 11:45; the driver said he slept the entire way. 

Tuesday was also Ryan's second scheduled visit to Dr. Bock.  I thought this appointment would be easier and less overwhelming since we knew what to expect, but I was wrong.  It was just as overwhelming, if not more.  The doctor gave us so much information about Ryan's test results that it was confusing.  I wrote down some notes, but I couldn't keep up with half of what he was saying.  It didn't help that Ryan's behavior was erratic.  It was good that the doctor was able to see a glimpse of Ryan at his worst, but it made for a stressful afternoon.  Dr. Bock commented that Ryan has behavioral issues with attention deficits.  We think this was his way to say that Ryan is ADD or ADHD, and I guess that will be the next diagnosis we receive from the neurologist.

The main purpose of the visit was to get the results from all of the bloodwork, stool and urine samples that were administered during the month of May. The test results included a list of things that Ryan is deficient in such as chromium, selenium, and sulfur.  He also told us about Ryan's high food sensitivity to eggs and moderate sensitivity to mustard.  Yeast was found under the microscope, and his membranes were high in calcium.  In addition, he has "bad bacteria" that needs to be treated with antibiotics and also a mild genetic polymorphism abnormality, whatever that means.  I didn't ask for copies of anything and will have to remember to do that for my next visit.  I'm also going to have to ask him to go through some of the results again because everything is now so muddled in my head.  I did a substandard job gathering the necessary information and was disappointed that I wasn't a better advocate.  I spent most of Tuesday night and Wednesday morning sulking for doing such a poor job.  In addition to the sulking, I went through all of Ryan's supplements and tried to organize them (and my thoughts).  I created a spreadsheet in the form of a checklist with the name of the supplement, the dose, and frequency so that we can keep track of which ones we have given him each day.  It is an overwhelming task and we're trying to introduce new supplements one at a time over 3 or 4 days in order to observe his behavior and note any changes that we see because of the supplements.   To get an idea, here is a picture of his supplements.  This doesn't include the prescription medications, B12 injections, and numbing cream that will be shipped to us during the week.


So those are the supplements that Ryan takes daily (many are twice a day).  From this visit alone he suggested 11 supplements (in addition to the 9 he is already taking).  Some are liquids but most are capsuls that have to be opened and the supplement then gets mixed into food.  Most often we mix them in mustard, ketchup, or peanut butter.  Unfortunately, we now have to cut back on the mustard because of the food sensitivity results.  In addition, we should be eliminating ketchup from his diet for two reasons: phenols and yeast.  Ryan is sensitive to foods high in phenols; the doctor believes this may be the cause of Ryan's sudden outbreaks of red cheeks and maybe some of his mood swings.  Tomatoes are on the list of foods high in phenols.  Ketchup also has vinegar in it, which could be causing the yeast that was discovered.  I'm not sure how Ryan will react to us eliminating ketchup from his diet.  While I don't feel we can totally eliminate it at this point, we can certainly reduce it.  We can make sure he uses smaller portions of it for starters.  We were fine with him using a lot of ketchup because it made it easy for us to mix his meds in it.  We're going to need to be more creative with getting the supplements worked in to his meals.  There is also an enzyme that the doctor suggested that we can give Ryan when he has foods high in phenols.  There are many foods on the phenols list that Ryan doesn't eat, but here are some of the foods that he enjoys and eats often that were on the list: apples, strawberries, pickles, grapes, oranges, bananas, chocolate, and tomatoes.  For those of you who know Ryan, you know that giving up some of these foods will be difficult.  Just when we were getting the GFCF diet under control, we now have to watch out for all of these foods, and eliminate eggs as well. 

Aside from the supplements, Dr. Bock also prescribed Nystatin and Gentamycin (I guess to rid him of the bacteria), both of which have to come from a compounding pharmacy.  On Wednesday morning I spent about an hour researching compounding pharmacies/pharmacists.  There are not many in NY and none within a short driving distance, so things will need to get shipped to me.  Once Ryan is on these prescription medications for three weeks, we can begin giving him B12 injections twice a week.  These B12 shots also need to be shipped to us from a compounding lab that is sterile and has the capability to produce the injections.  During Ryan's doctor visit I had to be trained (and pay $45 to get trained) on how to properly prepare and dispose of the needle, and how to administer the injection.  There is a process that needs to be followed and I'll be sure to give you more information about the injections once we start them.  Frankly, that entire part of the appointment was a fiasco and I don't want to relive it right now.  Dr. Bock's nurse, who has awful bedside manner, was the one doing the training.  I don't want to get into details, but I put a call in to Dr. Bock to discuss the situation with him because the way she treated Ryan was very upsetting to us.  I'm waiting for him to return my call. 

To top off the day, when we were finished with the appointment we met my parents (who had Julia), and Phil's mom at a restaurant down the road from Dr. Bock's office called Mazza Grill.  We arrived at 4:45 and it was good to have everyone together to talk about our visit.  Phil had called this restaurant in the morning to be sure that they could accomodate a child on a GF diet.  We asked if they would be able to make something like french fries and grilled chicken.  They said it wouldn't be a problem and they get visitors from Rhinebeck Health Center all of the time.  When we ordered the food we explained how Ryan's food needed to be prepared.  We did everything right, and yet everything went wrong.  The manager or owner came out to tell us that they could not accomodate a GF diet and that the fries are batter dipped and wouldn't be gluten free.  When we explained that Phil called in the morning to check, he wanted to know the name of the person we spoke with.  He was very condescending to Phil and we packed up our stuff and left.  The kids were upset because they couldn't understand why we were leaving; they were tired and cranky and their behavior from 5pm to 9pm was awful.  It was a very frustrating ride home and disappointing evening.

DC

Sunday, May 30, 2010

Day 44

Ryan's first overnight trip since we started the diet. We are up at my mom's house for the night. They were prepared with several items that Ryan can eat, and everything is working out fine so far. We made sure we packed all of his supplements, and Ryan took them with no problem this evening. He had several onlookers who clapped for him and he was proud!

Ryan's skin has improved greatly. Dr. Bock said that we need to "lubricate his body from the inside out". That is what the fatty acids and fish oils are doing. His skin is almost as soft and smooth as it was when he was a baby. He scratches a lot less than he used to, and his cheeks are red and blotchy on occassion rather than daily. We've noticed a lot of the same changes with Julia, who has dry skin issues as well. Once she realized how much attention Ryan gets during "supplement time" she started demanding medicine and vitamins. We give her omega-3 vitamins in the form of a gummy bear and she loves them. She is proud of her softer skin and when I ask her why her skin is so smooth she says because she takes her vitamins.

It was nice this weekend to see family that we don't get to see too often. They had nice things to say about Ryan's progress and because they haven't seen him in a while they noticed a big change. I saw the progress a lot in the beginning and now it seems as if things have hit a plateau. It is easy to forget how awful things used to get at times and I question if they were really all that bad or if it was "in our heads". When I hear a family member comment on how much he has changed it validates what we are doing and what we have done. I guess I have to get used to the fact that this "new" behavior is going to hopefully be the "norm".

DC

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Day 41

Happy Birthday Phil!

Ryan, Julia, and I were invited to Phil's job to join in the celebration for his birthday. Ryan did very well eating his GFCF cookies while everyone else had birthday cake. Prior to this diet he would have had a full-fledged meltdown if we told him he couldn't eat chocolate cake. But he was content eating his cookies.

Prior to that he had his second "interview" for a new school this fall, and the directors feel he will fit right in and accepted our application. One more thing to check off of our list of things to take care of to set up Ryan's schooling for September.

Phil thought we could go out to dinner at the Outback but at 4:30 the kids were "off the wall" and we thought it best to stay in for dinner. Ryan didn't have much of an appetite. We made turkey burgers and put his on GF toasted bread but he only ate about 1/3 of it. He was a bit cranky the rest of the evening and I'm thinking it may have been from something he ate earlier in the day.

We began him on another supplement tonight, a type of vitamin E. It is the 4th one that Dr. Bock suggested out of the 6 we took home. So combine these four with the three we were already doing prior to seeing Dr. Bock, and we're up to 7. It took over 10 minutes before just to prep all of his "medicines". Some are liquid and were added to his drink. The capsules were broken open and mixed with other foods.

We have a friend coming over for dinner tomorrow night. I think we might try our first take out pizza since we started the diet. We'll put Ryan's pizza in the oven and get him psyched about it and then maybe he won't feel so bad when he sees the box from the pizzeria. We'll let you know how it goes! Until then...

DC

Saturday, May 15, 2010

Day 29

Today we had a good day with him and the diet with supplements. We went to a party this afternoon and he was very content to eat his food. The only thing that he really wanted was chocolate covered strawberries. But they had fresh strawberries and he was content. However, we did have to give him some more potato chips to get his mind off of the chocolate covered strawberries. He was great at the party, no meltdowns, and played great with the other kids. His behavior was excellent and he really was able to interact with others at the party. Another party that Dawn and I could enjoy without having to run after him constantly.

He is taking the supplements but we have been using OJ to help get him to take them easier. However, OJ is high in sugar and Phenols and we have to start getting him off these two. Now that we have him on the GF/CF diet, it is time to start the sugar and Phenol battle. We will keep you informed.

Today I took Ryan to the A&P (which is not a very friendly store for GF/CF products) to do a regular food shopping. It is the biggest food store that is closest to our house. We have switched to a lot of Organic products, one of those being Organic chicken. We can all now taste the difference with the chicken. There was none on the shelf so we asked the butcher. He was able to look in the back and get us a package. He asked us about the taste of the chicken and we told him that we could taste the difference, especially the kids. We also started talking about Ryan's diet since Ryan asked if this was his or Julia's chicken. As I was talking about the GF/CF diet and autism, the person behind me interrupted us and asked us if he heard us correctly that Ryan was diagnosed with Autism. He then called over what I found out to be his son and daughter-in-law and told them that this little boy was diagnosed with Autism. Which at this point Ryan said that he was not a little boy he was Ryan. This blew the couple away. They asked how old Ryan was an he responded that he was four and that he had a pirate party but not today. The asked what types of therapy was in and what medications he was taking that made such a big difference. I told them the he was granted OT, which did not start yet and that he was only on the GF/CF diet and supplements. No medicine. To say they were shocked was an understatement.

We talked some more about the Diet and they were amazed that I brought Ryan to the store and Ryan chimed in that we went to the Library first. I found out that they were visiting and that they left their son, four and a half at the house and that this was their break. Apparently their son was much farther down the spectrum then Ryan and was difficult to bring to different places. They wanted to know about what we were doing and how we found out about the diet. I told them to start with Dr. Bock's book Healing the New Childhood Epidemics, to find a DAN! doctor, and research the diet. I told them that this diet does not always work, but for us it has been a total life saver with Ryan. I shared a few stories about Ryan, how he would act, re-act, and how he would eat before we started the diet and they just nodded their head in agreement. I forgot to tell them about this blog but I hope that I gave them a good start. At the end of our 20 minute conversation (Ryan was telling me that it was time to go and getting antsy sitting in the cart) they thanked me and the mom started to cry. I wish that Dawn had been with me for she would have been such a better resource for her and a better source of comfort. I hope that I gave them what so many parents of children with Autism need: Hope.

PC

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Day 23


Mother Warriors

Jenny McCarthy wrote a book about her son's battle with Autism and referred to some of the other mothers as warriors in this battle. Well Dawn fits this profile exactly. She is Ryan's warrior. She is relentless in her pursuit to help Ryan. I mentioned in an earlier post that our original appointment with Dr. Bock was on November 8, 2010. Yet, Dawn managed to get Ryan appointment on May 6, 2010.

Dawn tracked down Dr. Sydney Baker, one of the founders of DAN (Defeat Autism Now!). He was one of the doctors that help to train Dr. Bock. She somehow found his home phone number. She spoke to his wife for a little while and then she gave Dawn Dr. Baker's cell phone number. When she called the number he answered! They spoke for a while and he was able to get Ryan in next week. He asked for Dawn's email address so he could email the forms that we would need to fill out for the appointment. The only bad part was that his office was in Sag Harbor on Long Island. Instead of just taking the appointment Dawn called Br. Bock's office and left a message telling them the story. That afternoon Dr. Bock's office called and said that they had a cancellation and could fit Ryan in on Thursday. While we know that the office had a cancellation we had a feeling that given the situation and the fact that Dawn was talking to his mentor we moved to the top of the list to be rescheduled!

If you have been reading the blog or following the Ryan Express face book page you will have noticed that Dawn is a huge driving force in helping Ryan. She has set up our team to do the Autism walk, designed T-shirts, developed this blog, set up appointments, read every book on Autism, started Ryan on the GF/CF diet, found every store in our area that has food for Ryan, looked into all of the supplements that Ryan will need on the new diet, contacted his schools to be sure Ryan would be able to stay on his diet, and is in the process of setting up a Not-for-Profit organization in Ryan's name to help those that can not afford to see DAN doctors or buy food for the GF/CF diet.

Like I said Dawn is Ryan's Warrior and on this Mother's Day Ryan is very lucky to have Dawn as his Mother! Happy Mothers Day Dawn.

PC

PS The cake was fantastic and a big hit!

Thursday, May 6, 2010

Day 20

Dr. Bock

Today was our appointment with Dr. Bock. Originally this appointment was for November 8th but Dawn managed to get Ryan an appointment today. I will talk about how she managed that one in another posting.

It was a crazy day but one well worth the time. The only bad part of the appointment was the fact that we had to have Ryan fast to get blood work. This never ended up happening. Now that his body is accepting the GF/CF food he has regained his appetite. So by 7:45 AM he was getting very upset telling us that he was hungry and that he wanted his special toast! The appointment lasts over 4 hours and the blood drawing does not occur until the end of the appointment. There was no way we were going to be able to keep Ryan from eating until noon.

Dr. Bock seems like a very nice man and he was impressed with the progress that Ryan has been making with the diet. We described what Ryan was like before the diet and what he was like now. Ryan did great with the appointment. He sat and played in the office as Dr. Bock went over the huge intake packet with us. We even had Dawn's parents meet us at the appointment just in case Ryan could not handle the appointment. Ryan did amazing. He watched the phone company repair a downed wire outside the building. He even waved to the worker in the cherry picker fixing the line. He was such a trooper.

Dr. Bock was also impressed with the fact that we read his book and that Dawn was able to share the progress that Ryan has made on the diet. The doctor shared with us that it is a good sign that in such a short amount of time Ryan has made such great progress. He even commented that Ryan had good eye contact! This was probably the first time that anyone has ever said that about Ryan.

After the appointment was over they handed us several test kits to collect more blood, stool, and urine to get tested. The directions are unreal and we feel completely over whelmed with all the stuff that we learned and that we have to now do to help Ryan. Finding a lab that will draw the blood needed and test for the specific items that he wants is a huge task. Dawn is still sorting though all the directions and going crazy finding a place that will do these tests and at a time that we can have Ryan fast but not have him go crazy about wanting to eat.

The last part of the appointment was going over all the supplements that they want Ryan to take. This is a huge undertaking and the directions alone will make your head spin. Take this now, this later, this with water, this with food, this twice a day, this needs to be in the frig, this can not be in the frig and the list goes on and on.

As over loaded with information as we are, we do feel much better that we are now under the care of a doctor and not his book. While the book was a huge help and a great resource, having a human being talking to us and a plan of action is so reassuring. We are hopeful that with the supplements, the continued diet, the OT, continued speech and whatever else he wants us to try we are going to see even more progress by his next birthday! Today we received what has been missing in a while: Hope.

PC

Day 19

Ryan had a bad day. One of his teachers called me to tell me that he had several meltdowns and he was acting differently than he has been the last two weeks. She said he was whiny and cried because he finished his snack and wanted more. We haven't given him anything new in the past 24 hours so I'm not sure why this happened. He flipped out on the car ride home because Phil had to stop for gas and he wouldn't let Ryan get out of the car. He then cried even harder when Phil drove a different way home due to his detour to the gas station. The only thing I can think of is that he deviated slightly from the diet the day before when he grabbed Julia's bag of pretzels instead of his own. He had 2 or 3 mini pretzels before we stopped him. Note to self...we need to come up with a color code system or something similar so that he doesn't accidentally eat someone else's food. At home we can just switch Julia over to some of the GF snacks (although she is not taking a liking to them the way Ryan has). But at school he's going to have other kids' food around him all of the time. Who knows... maybe he snuck more non-GFCG food that we don't know about.

On a positive note, he took his dose of cod liver oil much better last night. We mixed one part oil with one part water. This helped to dilute it and not be so oily. We then gave it to him in two different syringe sessions. This is the first day that he hasn't spite some of it out. I don't know if it is because he is getting used to the taste or because we diluted it, but I'm going to keep diluting it in the future!

Off to Dr. Bock tomorrow morning! Our November 8th appointment got moved up to this week...Miracle! Dr. Bock is a specialist, a DAN! (Defeat Autism Now!) doctor.

DC

Saturday, April 17, 2010

Day 1

After spending the past two weeks reading three different books (Healing the New Childhood Epidemics by Dr. Bock, Mother Warriers by Jenny McCarthy, and The Autism & ADHD Diet by Barrie Silberg, we decided to change Ryan's diet. We are aiming for 100% gluten-free and casein-free (no dairy proteins) for at least 3 months. We also want to reduce the additives/preservatives, chemicals, and dyes that his body is exposed to. We're novices, and Ryan is only 3, so this should be an adventure!

I spent almost 2 hours in the grocery store (Hannaford's) and came out with a half a dozen shopping bags. My wallet was $152 lighter, and I was frustrated. My purchases ranged from pastas to cereal to hand soap. There were several items to choose from, which almost made it difficult to figure out what to buy. There were several bread options, flour options, and "milk" options; I ended up buying three different types of milk and two different types of breads. We were excited to try the new diet and I could hardly wait to find out if we would see any noticeable changes and how long it would take for us to see them.

For the remainder of the day we introduced a few of the foods as a test. He didn't like the light soy milk vanilla flavored nor chocolate flavored when by themselves, but he readily had it with cereal. Granted the cereal was not gluten-free (my dad didn't realize we purchased GF cereal and gave him the Cocoa Puffs.) We didn't bother opening up the rice milk.

I went online and ordered new sunscreen, soap, and shampoo for Ryan. There went another $150 but the we're hoping these new products will help his skin clear up. There are days that he scratches himself until he bleeds. We've always been told it is eczema and doctors give us all sorts of advice as to which products to use but nothing has ever helped.

DC