Week 160- Happy Birthday Ryan!

Happy Birthday Ryan!  It has been a very eventful seven years but we would not trade them for anything.  We love you so much and we are proud of you for all that you have accomplished and all that you will accomplish.  Our "baby Ryan" is growing up. 

Seven years old!

Getting too big to sit on Grandma's lap!  

Thrilled to finally get some cake!  

Mother's Day

I am constantly amazed at how committed Dawn is to this process.  If there is a doctor's appointment to be made, she somehow finds a way to get it weeks ahead of everyone else.   She is on top of Jack's appointments and what he needs at daycare, Julia's Irish step dancing competitions and soccer games, and Ryan's Religion homework and when there is a party in his classroom that we need to send in some GFCF cupcakes!  She is the person that holds us all together and without her we (me) would be a complete disaster!  How she finds time to develop amazing lessons for her students and all the other things that she needs to do for her job is a mystery.  Yet each day she gets up, and shows us all the love and grace of a person without a care in the world.  It is amazing and Ryan, Julia, and Jack are the luckiest children in the world having Dawn as their mom.  Happy Mother's Day beautiful!

All together with the best mom ever!  With some drool and ketchup stains!

Ryan Express shirts on Friday and pins

Mahopac Middle school showing their support!  

On Friday, Dawn received a call from the Assistant Principal telling us of another incident where Ryan broke a rule to enforce a rule.  During reading time, Ryan choked a student that was not following the rules, and then at lunch told the same boy to look under the table and then he kicked him in the face.  This is the fourth incident this year where Ryan has resorted to violence to enforce a rule in school.  We had an appointment with Dr. Hahn that afternoon and Ryan refused to talk about it.  He hid behind me the entire time and refused to talk to the doctor about it.  After this latest incident and the fact that we do not believe the other medicine is working, we decided to give Focalin a try.  This is similar to Ritilan.  Focalin (dexmethylphenidate) is used to treat ADHD.  The psychiatrist still wants us to keep giving the Fluoxetine to Ryan and we have an appointment with him at the end of the month to assess how things are going.

We gave Ryan the Focalin a try this weekend and he was zooming!  It is a time released drug and a few hours in, he was all over the place.  He was talking a mile a minute and went from one thing to the next.  We noticed that this was about 2 to 3 hours into the medicine and then he calmed down after an hour.  We assume that this is just his body getting used to the medicine and are hoping for the best as we give him this new medicine and send him to school tomorrow.  Dawn is emailing his teachers to give them the heads up in case he is all over the place again tomorrow.

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