Week 153

We began the week excited to have Ryan's appointment with the psychiatrist.  Unfortunately, the morning of the appointment, the receptionist called to cancel the appointment.  It was the morning following the snow/ice storm.  Many schools were on a 2 hour delay.  I was home with the kids, about to pack them into the car to take them to daycare so that I could head to work and the phone rang.  I was so annoyed.  I told the receptionist that the roads were fine and the buses were already out there picking up the high school kids in my neighborhood.  How could the doctor cancel an appointment for the afternoon when she had 5 hours to make her way into the office?  They told me to call back and reschedule.  Yeah right!  So with the psychiatrist appointment cancelled, and the psychologist appointment cancelled just a few days before that, we were feeling pretty defeated.  In the meantime, a family friend had recommended another doctor in Newburgh who comes highly recommended.  He is on vacation but said that he would be willing to meet with Ryan when he returns.  I've left a message and am hoping to hear back very soon.


Among the many recommendations we received, one was for the Autism Program at Yale.  They have a Child Study Center that is considered one of the best in the country, where over a two day period a team of specialists interview us and work with Ryan to determine his strengths and weaknesses.  At the end of the two days we are provided with a pile of reports that we can use to help Ryan get the help he needs in school and within our community.  I spent time researching the program this week and speaking with an individual from the Yale Child Study Office.  We were able to make an appointment for Ryan during the first week in April.  But after further consideration, Phil and I cancelled the appointment.  With all of the other avenues we are pursuing right now, we didn't want to jump into this and overwhelm Ryan.  It is a lot of money, out-of-pocket, to spend ($5500) for reports similar to what we may already receive from the professionals currently working with Ryan.  I'm sure it is the name "Yale" at the top of the reports that may open a few more doors, but at the moment we seem to already be inundated with information.  It is not the lack of information, it is "What do we do now with this information?" that has us stumped.  The Yale program is something that we can wait a few months for and see if it is necessary at that time.  This will give us more time to save up the $5500 since much of our current resources we are currently investing in appointments in the psychiatric field.  It is astonishing how many doctors in this field do not participate in insurance! 


Autism Program at Yale

Jack turned 8 months this week.  Here is a picture of Jack with Ryan and Julia.

Towards the end of the week Ryan had a huge meltdown that lasted about 20 minutes.  My parents and brother were here.  They said he was great all day and then something set him off and he couldn't control himself.  It happened just as I had returned home from work on Friday.  It was already a bad day as I had met with the Assistant Superintendent in the morning and found out that I was one of 67 teachers in my District being laid off.  As of right now I do not have a position for the 2013-2014 school year.  That may change depending upon the budget in May, but there are a lot of factors in play right now.  I can't believe after working for a district for 10 years that there have been so many cuts that I am at the bottom of the list on the chopping block.  How do you continue to run a decent education program with that many layoffs? After a rough day at work, walking in the door to Ryan crying and screaming and throwing his body around was just a lot to handle. 

And Ryan's skin is getting progressively worse.  He is obsessed with scratching it and he is so itchy it is further upsetting him.  We took him to the pediatrician and she gave us two topical prescription medications; she said his eczema and his scratching, has caused an infection on the skin.  After just one day of use we already noticed a difference and Ryan said himself that he is less itchy.  Here is a picture of his scaly, scabby leg the night before we took him to the pediatrician.

On Palm Sunday we did a little early celebration of Easter with our families.  The kids had an Easter egg hunt outside and had a lot of fun playing all together.

Don't forget that April 2nd is World Autism Awareness Day and homes and buildings around the world will be lighting it up blue. Get those light bulbs ready! Our light bulbs are ready to go for the evening of 4/1!  And please remember to wear blue on 4/2! 

DC